Worship Service 08/15/2021

Preacher: Jeremy Herbert

Text: Ephesians 2:1-10

Theme: What Does the Bible Say About Identity: Who Am I In Christ?

  • Personal Identity
  • Social Identity
  • Restored Identity

 

Notes:

  • Questions:
    • How did I get here?
    • Who am I?
    • Why am I here?
    • What is true?
    • How do I know right from wrong?
    • What happens when I die?
  • Ecc 3:11, “…He has put eternity into man’s heart….”
  • Questions of Identity:
    • The answers to these questions will determine who you are and what you do with your life
    • Who am I?
    • Why am I here?
    • Personal Identity
      • Your individual personality and characteristics
      • How you perceive yourself
      • What distinguishes you from others?
    • Social Identity
      • Your shared values with others
      • How others perceive you
      • How are you alike with others?
    • If we tie either our personal identity (what I think about myself)
      or our social identity (what others think of us) to the wrong things,
      we are going to have a flawed view of our identity

      • Since God is the author of who we are, He has the authority to rightly describe who we are
    • The structure of the book of Ephesians points to the issue of identity
      • As believers, our identity is inextricably  tethered to Christ
    • Every other source of identity is a false foundation of shifting sand:
      • Being a spouse
      • Being a parent
      • Being wealthy
      • Being creative
      • Being an American
      • Being employed
      • Being successful
    • Am I still who I am when I lose one or more of these things?
    • Am I still OK when I lose one or more of these things?
    • The “Disney problem”: when a protagonist looks inward to find truth, and lives out their own subjective truth apart from their any other truth
      • But we are born without any indwelling truth
      • We must find truth outside of ourselves
        • Eph 2:1, “…you were dead in trespasses and sins….”
        • Our will is by nature bound to oppose God
        • Apart from the regeneration of the (external) Holy Spirit, we will not come to the truth
    • Sin distorted our identity
      • But through Christ, we have been given a new identity
      • Our old identity has no power over us
        • 1 Cor 6:11, “And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified….”
        • Eph 2:1-2, “And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked….”
        • 1 Tim 1:13, “though formerly I was a blasphemer, persecutor, and insolent opponent…”
      • We don’t define ourselves by how we feel or how well you do:
        • I’m doing great–I’m better than those other sinners
        • I’m doing terrible–I will never change or improve
    • A right perspective on our identity as believers:
      • I am loved
      • Not because I am inherently lovely
      • But because Christ has made me lovely
      • We don’t derive our identity from what we say about ourselves
      • We derive our identity from what God says about us
    • We are freed from either shame or pride because
      • God acknowledges our sin,
      • Christ atoned for our sin,
      • God accepts Christ’s sacrifice,
      • God transforms us,
      • God calls us His own
  • Live It Out!
    • Root out false ideas with the truth:
      • 2 Cor 10:5, “We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ,”
    • Meditate on truth of God’s word
    • Pray that God would empower your future through hope in what Christ has done
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Worship Service 08/08/2021

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Worship Service 08/01/2021

Preacher: Jeremy Herbert

Text: Psalm 23

Theme: The Great Shepherd

Notes:

God called David, a shepherd, to reflect the Great Shepherd, and shepherd God’s people

We often remember David’s great victories: defeating Goliath, conquering the Philistines, capturing Jerusalem

Yet David had many great tragedies

  • He spent years on the run as his king tried to murder him
  • three of his sons died–all under tragic circumstances

 

Psalm 23:1, “The LORD is my shepherd”

  1. God’s Exaltation
  • The LORD: there is a God, and He is the Creator of the universe
  • My shepherd: This God is my shepherd
    • He watches over me
    • He meets my needs
      • Not necessarily our wants
        • “I shall not want”, meaning, “I shall not lack”
  • Will this God be there for you in your worst moments?
    • Will he sustain you through pain and loss?
    • This psalm affirms that this God that provided for David will provide for you
    • Would it help to worry?
      • Matthew 6:25-34

 

2. David’s Expectation

  • Because of who God is (past & present), He will provide for me  (future)
    • “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
      I will fear no evil, for you are with me;”
    • “your rod and your staff, they comfort me.”
      • The shepherd is armed with the tools to defend the sheep against enemies without–and to save us from our own foolishness as well
    • The psalm marks God’s many provisions:
      • You prepare a table before me
      • You anoint my head with oil;
    • David’s expectation is rooted in relationship with God
      • “You are with me;”
    • God’s goodness and mercy are absolutely unfailing–regardless of whether we deserve it (we don’t)
    • God not only is good and merciful–but he delights to do so
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Worship Service 07/11/2021

Preacher: Jeremy Herbert

Text: 1 Thessalonians 2:10-12

Theme:

Notes:

Look for counsel in older, godly Christian parents who raised children.

Our children are not our own–they are God’s, and their care is stewarded to us by God.

 

Our Mission is Gospel Centered

  • We are preparing our children (God’s children) for eternity
  • No matter how much time God gives us, our job is to prepare an eternal soul for an eternal future

 

Our Methods are God-dependent

  • We are aiming for heart change, not just behavior modification

 

Our Manner is Grace-based

  • We are committed to our children’s best interest–as described by God
  • Parents are–by design–their children’s primary disciplers
  • Only parents who know God themselves can lead their children toward God

 

Parenting Pitfalls

  1. Fear/control-based parenting
    • Instead of trusting in Christ, attempting to create/control the perfect environment
    • It is rooted in fear, and leans into control
    • Extreme forms:
      • Amish
      • Monasticism
      • Communes
  2. Behavior Modification
    • Attempting to impose enough rules to force children to be good
  3. Image-Control
    • Desiring to look good by your children acting well
    • May impose multiple good activities
  4. Crowd Parenting
    • Pragmatic/faddish, looking to cultural norms for parenting
    • Often inconsistent
    • Lacks intentionality
  5. Duct Tape Parenting
    • Laissez faire, reactive, half-hearted solutions
  6. Emergency Room Parenting
    • Just trying to keep the kids alive

 

All of these fall far short of biblically-informed, grace-based parenting.

Grace-based parenting:

  1. Seeks to void parenting pitfalls

  2. Realizes that our greatest problem is inside us, not outside us
    • Sin indwells you as a parent
    • Sin indwells your child
    • Romans 7:21-25, “…evil is present with me, the one who wills to do good….”
    • “…Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it / Prone to leave the God I love…” –Robert Robinson
    • The only hope to rescue sinners–both parents and children–is Jesus Christ
    • You cannot provide a perfect environment
      • This does not mean you don’t try to protect them
      • It just means you don’t put your hope in that protection
  3. Understands that the extremes of legalism or license aren’t the answer
    • Legalism–seeking to impose enough rules to create holiness
      • The Law only has the power to reveal God’s will–but it cannot empower obedience
      • God’s Law was given in the context of relationship, and our parenting needs to be in the context of relationship as well
    • License–seeks to counter the excesses of legalism by erroring in the opposite direction
      • Failure to teach self-control has life-long–and often, eternity-long–consequences
      • Even in an unbelieving, secular life delayed gratification is one of the most fundamental lessons everyone must learn
      • Self-control is one of the fruits of the Spirit

 

Live It Out

  1. Honestly examine your parenting
  2. Repent of worthless parenting practices
  3. Accept God’s forgiveness and embrace grace–for yourself and for your child
  4. Change your thinking through God’s means of grace

 

Book recommendations:

  • Shepherding a Child’s Heart by Tedd Tripp
  • Parenting by Paul David Tripp
  • Grace-Based Parenting by Tim Kimmel
  • Family Discipleship by Matt Chandler & Adam Griffin
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Worship Service 07/04/2021

Preacher: Jeremy Herbert

Text: 1 Timothy 2:1-7

Theme: Praying for the Lost

Notes: 

Effective evangelism begins with praying for the lost.

How to Pray

  • “supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings” (v.1)
    1. Pray with awareness of the need –supplications
    2. Pray as worship to God –prayers
    3. Pray with compassion for people –intercessions
      • God-honoring prayer is not detached and aloof
      • Matthew 9:35, Christ moved with compassion for the lost
    4. Pray with a grateful heart –thanksgivings
      • When you are truly grateful for a good gift, it is hard not to tell about the one who gave it
    5. Pray with holy hands (v.8)
      • Sin undermines your confidence in God–and your prayers suffer as a result
    6. Pray while proclaiming the gospel
      • We are not to either pray or go–we are to pray and go
  • Who should we pray for?
    • All men (in general)
    • Those in authority (in specific)
      • Paul exhorted this–knowing full well that Nero was the emperor at the time
      • Pray that our leaders would come to Christ, pray for their well-being
        • Romans 2, “The goodness of God leads us to repentance.”
        • It’s hard to draw people to Christ if you don’t love them
      • Result: that we may live quiet and peaceable lives (v.2)
  • Why Pray?
    • God says it is good (v.3)
    • God wants to rescue people (v.4)
    • It pleases God joy (v.3)
    • Salvation uniquely glorifies the godhead (v.5-6)
      • Christ became a ransom not for masses, but for particular persons
    • It reflects the heart of our Savior (John 7)
  • Scriptural Examples
    • Samuel
    • Jeremiah
    • Daniel
    • Stephen
    • Paul (Romans 9)
  • Historical Examples
    • Knox
    • Whitefield
    • Martin
    • Spurgeon

 

Live It Out

  • Pray for our community to come to Christ
  • Pray for local, state, national leaders to come to Christ
  • Pray that our church would be a lighthouse of hope
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Worship Service 06/27/2021

Preacher: Jeremy Herbert

Text: 1 Thessalonians 2:1-12

Theme:  4 Principles To Be A Disciple-Making Dad

Thesis:

Notes:

  1. Our mission is gospel-centered
  2. Our methods are God-dependent
  3. Our motives are God-glorifying
  4. Our manner is grace-based

 

It is your responsibility as a parent to teach and model the gospel to your children–
but their salvation is God’s responsibility.

If our kids turn out well, it is a testament to God’s grace and goodness–not a testament to our parenting.

4. Our manner is grace-based

  • Paul described his manner with the Thessalonians to a nursing mother (12:7)
  • Paul’s intent was to shepherd them toward spiritual health
    • cf Ephesians 6:4, “…do not provoke your children to anger….”
  • “…we were ready to share with you not only the gospel of God but also our own selves….” (12:8)
    • Your children do not need more stuff–they need you
    • It is easy to buy into the lie that “this project/event/chore/task/sermon will not be done if I don’t do it”
  • “…we worked night and day….” (12:9)
  • “[we walked worthy, and exhorted you to do the same]” (12:10-12)

 

Live It Out

  1. Be honest and open about your failures
  2. Embrace grace
  3. Prayerfully plan changes
  4. Get help

Worship Service 06/20/2021

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Text: 1 Thessalonians 2:1-12

Theme: 4 Principles To Be A Disciple-Making Dad

Thesis:

Notes:

  • We are called to emulate the character of our Heavenly Father and be a father to the fatherless.
  • Paul wrote 1 Thessalonians to encourage the believers in Thessalonica to continue in the faith.
  1. Our mission is gospel-centered
  2. Our methods are God-dependent
  3. Our motives are God-glorifying
  4. Our manner is grace-based

 

  1. Our mission is gospel-centered
    • Parenting is disciple-making
    • God gives us children for His glory
    • Our primary goal is to point them to Christ, that they would follow Him
      • All other goals are secondary at best
    • What you praise your children for is a good indicator of what you truly find important
    • The goal:
      • v12, “…that you would walk worthy of God, who calls you into His kingdom….”
      • Not making us or our our children happy
      • Children develop their attitude toward God by how they respond to their God-ordained authorities
  2. Our methods are God-dependent
    • vv3, 5, “…our appeal does not spring from error or impurity or any attempt to deceive…we never came with words of flattery….”
    • Only Christ will empower your kids (and anyone else) to do what is right
    • Lying, tricking, emotionally manipulating are all wrong methods of parenting
  3. Our motives are God-glorifying
    • v4, “…just as we have been approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel….”
      • You, as a believer, has been entrusted with the gospel
      • As a believer, and also as a parent, a spouse, etc.
    • God-glorifying motives vs motives that rob God of glory
      • Pleasing God vs pleasing ourselves, our children, or anyone else
      • Doing what is best for the child vs. doing what is convenient for me
      • Being concerned about what God thinks about your children, vs. being concerned about what others think about your kids and/or your parenting
    • Parenting is not about us
    • Children will not make us whole or complete
      • Wholeness will never be supplied by anything apart from Christ–even good, Christ-given gifts
    • Our children do not exist to make us feel loved
      • You cannot make right, gospel-driven choices if we are slaves to our appetite for our children’s approval

 

Live It Out!

  1. Be honest and open about your failures
    • With your kids
    • With your self
    • Make excuses with neither
  2. Embrace grace
    • There is grace for your kids–and for you
  3. Prayerfully plan changes
    • Talk to God, talk to your spouse
    • Don’t overwhelm yourself
    • If you realize you have a lot of changes to make, start small and be consistent
  4. Get help
    •  Find godly people in your church
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Worship Service 06/13/2021

Preacher: Jeremy Herbert

Text: Proverbs 3

Theme: Everyday Wisdom

Thesis:

Notes:

Prov 1, “…the fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom.”

Wisdom is neither internal or instinctual–wisdom is outside of us, and must be pursued and applied.

Wisdom enables us to hold a right tension between truth and mercy, balancing them perfectly.

Wisdom starts with faith–because you won’t follow who you don’t trust.

Trust = faith

  • “…trust the LORD with all your heart….”

 

Hebrews 11, “…without faith it is impossible to please Him….”

There is nothing off-limits to wisdom–including money.

  • The Scripture talks extensively about money; your view of money is a clear window into your soul.

 

“Blessed/happy is the man who finds wisdom.”

  • Happy–man’s perspective
  • Blessed–God’s perspective
  • Both are true

 

Wisdom helps you avoid unnecessary pain

  • “The way of the sinner is hard.”

 

Live It Out

  • Test everything by God’s Word, 1 Thess 5:20-22
  • Actively and intentionally pursue wisdom in your home, inform your kids why you do what you do, Deut 6:5-9
    • What does the Bible tell us to do in this situation?
    • What do you want to know and know how to do biblically by the time they leave home?
      • Book recommendation: Shepherding A Child’s Heart by Tedd Tripp
  • Stay humble and hopeful
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