Worship Service 08/29/2021

Preacher: Jeremy Herbert

Text: Ephesians 2:

Theme: Our Identity In Christ

Notes:

Finding our identity in Christ allows us to relate to others around us in a Christ-like way.

Three Truths:
  1. Rooting our identity in Christ releases us from our past
    • “…you were dead in trespasses and sins in which you once walked….”
    • “…among whom we all once lived….”
    • “…even when we were dead in trespasses and sins….”
    • Our past reminds us that:
      • We can’t earn God’s love
        • “I know God loves me–but I don’t think He likes me”
        • It can be tempting to think that we can do something to “earn” grace
          • “I did these things, so God kind of owes me a good day”
          • “This bad thing happened, I must not have done enough to please Him”
      • If we think God treats us this way–offering grace provisionally or based on works
        (i.e., not grace), we will relate to others in this same way

        • How can you reflect God’s grace if you don’t feel God is full of grace–
          but that He is severe and usually disappointed?
    • God loves us, not because we are intrinsically or potentially lovely
      • God makes lovely that which He chooses to love, i.e.,
        He loves us because of of what He has done, not because of what we have done
    • Growing up in a Christian home you often are protected from committing certain sins that unbelievers harm themselves and others with
      • “The big ones”
      • But the closer you grow to Christ, the darker you understand your own sins to be–no matter how socially acceptable those sins might be
    • God’s desire for us to mourn over our sin is not a call to wallow in shame–it’s a call to accept His offer of grace, repent of our sin, and be made new
    • At salvation you have been given the resources to be free from sin
      • It doesn’t mean that some sins may take more time and effort than others to be free from
        • Sins you are painfully aware of
        • Sins you are unaware of
  2. Rooting our identity in Christ allows us to rest in His present grace
    • The call of legalism is often harsh and unforgiving
      • “This bad thing happened, I must not have displeased God.”
    • It can also be seductive
      • “This good thing happened, I must be really righteous”
    • But the truth is that God loves us with a covenantal love–where God loves us because He has promised to love us–based on the merits of Christ–not because of how you have performed.
      • Q: Won’t people just feel a license to live as sinful as they want, penalty-free?
      • A: People truly saved by grace will be transformed by grace.
    • You need not be pulled here and there by the exhausting sins of:
      • pride (look what I have done for God)
      • despair (look what I have done to God)
    • We must remember that God has entered into a covenant with His people:
      • By His own initiative
      • Utterly aware of every one of our sins
      • And God is for us!
  3. Rooting our identity in Christ restores us to purpose
    • Graces:
      • imago dei (ih-MAH-go DAY) — “the image of God”
        • Every human is made in the image of God
      • Common grace
      • Redemptive grace

 

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Worship Service 08/15/2021

Preacher: Jeremy Herbert

Text: Ephesians 2:1-10

Theme: What Does the Bible Say About Identity: Who Am I In Christ?

  • Personal Identity
  • Social Identity
  • Restored Identity

 

Notes:

  • Questions:
    • How did I get here?
    • Who am I?
    • Why am I here?
    • What is true?
    • How do I know right from wrong?
    • What happens when I die?
  • Ecc 3:11, “…He has put eternity into man’s heart….”
  • Questions of Identity:
    • The answers to these questions will determine who you are and what you do with your life
    • Who am I?
    • Why am I here?
    • Personal Identity
      • Your individual personality and characteristics
      • How you perceive yourself
      • What distinguishes you from others?
    • Social Identity
      • Your shared values with others
      • How others perceive you
      • How are you alike with others?
    • If we tie either our personal identity (what I think about myself)
      or our social identity (what others think of us) to the wrong things,
      we are going to have a flawed view of our identity

      • Since God is the author of who we are, He has the authority to rightly describe who we are
    • The structure of the book of Ephesians points to the issue of identity
      • As believers, our identity is inextricably  tethered to Christ
    • Every other source of identity is a false foundation of shifting sand:
      • Being a spouse
      • Being a parent
      • Being wealthy
      • Being creative
      • Being an American
      • Being employed
      • Being successful
    • Am I still who I am when I lose one or more of these things?
    • Am I still OK when I lose one or more of these things?
    • The “Disney problem”: when a protagonist looks inward to find truth, and lives out their own subjective truth apart from their any other truth
      • But we are born without any indwelling truth
      • We must find truth outside of ourselves
        • Eph 2:1, “…you were dead in trespasses and sins….”
        • Our will is by nature bound to oppose God
        • Apart from the regeneration of the (external) Holy Spirit, we will not come to the truth
    • Sin distorted our identity
      • But through Christ, we have been given a new identity
      • Our old identity has no power over us
        • 1 Cor 6:11, “And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified….”
        • Eph 2:1-2, “And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked….”
        • 1 Tim 1:13, “though formerly I was a blasphemer, persecutor, and insolent opponent…”
      • We don’t define ourselves by how we feel or how well you do:
        • I’m doing great–I’m better than those other sinners
        • I’m doing terrible–I will never change or improve
    • A right perspective on our identity as believers:
      • I am loved
      • Not because I am inherently lovely
      • But because Christ has made me lovely
      • We don’t derive our identity from what we say about ourselves
      • We derive our identity from what God says about us
    • We are freed from either shame or pride because
      • God acknowledges our sin,
      • Christ atoned for our sin,
      • God accepts Christ’s sacrifice,
      • God transforms us,
      • God calls us His own
  • Live It Out!
    • Root out false ideas with the truth:
      • 2 Cor 10:5, “We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ,”
    • Meditate on truth of God’s word
    • Pray that God would empower your future through hope in what Christ has done
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Worship Service 08/08/2021

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Worship Service 08/01/2021

Preacher: Jeremy Herbert

Text: Psalm 23

Theme: The Great Shepherd

Notes:

God called David, a shepherd, to reflect the Great Shepherd, and shepherd God’s people

We often remember David’s great victories: defeating Goliath, conquering the Philistines, capturing Jerusalem

Yet David had many great tragedies

  • He spent years on the run as his king tried to murder him
  • three of his sons died–all under tragic circumstances

 

Psalm 23:1, “The LORD is my shepherd”

  1. God’s Exaltation
  • The LORD: there is a God, and He is the Creator of the universe
  • My shepherd: This God is my shepherd
    • He watches over me
    • He meets my needs
      • Not necessarily our wants
        • “I shall not want”, meaning, “I shall not lack”
  • Will this God be there for you in your worst moments?
    • Will he sustain you through pain and loss?
    • This psalm affirms that this God that provided for David will provide for you
    • Would it help to worry?
      • Matthew 6:25-34

 

2. David’s Expectation

  • Because of who God is (past & present), He will provide for me  (future)
    • “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
      I will fear no evil, for you are with me;”
    • “your rod and your staff, they comfort me.”
      • The shepherd is armed with the tools to defend the sheep against enemies without–and to save us from our own foolishness as well
    • The psalm marks God’s many provisions:
      • You prepare a table before me
      • You anoint my head with oil;
    • David’s expectation is rooted in relationship with God
      • “You are with me;”
    • God’s goodness and mercy are absolutely unfailing–regardless of whether we deserve it (we don’t)
    • God not only is good and merciful–but he delights to do so
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Worship Service 07/11/2021

Preacher: Jeremy Herbert

Text: 1 Thessalonians 2:10-12

Theme:

Notes:

Look for counsel in older, godly Christian parents who raised children.

Our children are not our own–they are God’s, and their care is stewarded to us by God.

 

Our Mission is Gospel Centered

  • We are preparing our children (God’s children) for eternity
  • No matter how much time God gives us, our job is to prepare an eternal soul for an eternal future

 

Our Methods are God-dependent

  • We are aiming for heart change, not just behavior modification

 

Our Manner is Grace-based

  • We are committed to our children’s best interest–as described by God
  • Parents are–by design–their children’s primary disciplers
  • Only parents who know God themselves can lead their children toward God

 

Parenting Pitfalls

  1. Fear/control-based parenting
    • Instead of trusting in Christ, attempting to create/control the perfect environment
    • It is rooted in fear, and leans into control
    • Extreme forms:
      • Amish
      • Monasticism
      • Communes
  2. Behavior Modification
    • Attempting to impose enough rules to force children to be good
  3. Image-Control
    • Desiring to look good by your children acting well
    • May impose multiple good activities
  4. Crowd Parenting
    • Pragmatic/faddish, looking to cultural norms for parenting
    • Often inconsistent
    • Lacks intentionality
  5. Duct Tape Parenting
    • Laissez faire, reactive, half-hearted solutions
  6. Emergency Room Parenting
    • Just trying to keep the kids alive

 

All of these fall far short of biblically-informed, grace-based parenting.

Grace-based parenting:

  1. Seeks to void parenting pitfalls

  2. Realizes that our greatest problem is inside us, not outside us
    • Sin indwells you as a parent
    • Sin indwells your child
    • Romans 7:21-25, “…evil is present with me, the one who wills to do good….”
    • “…Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it / Prone to leave the God I love…” –Robert Robinson
    • The only hope to rescue sinners–both parents and children–is Jesus Christ
    • You cannot provide a perfect environment
      • This does not mean you don’t try to protect them
      • It just means you don’t put your hope in that protection
  3. Understands that the extremes of legalism or license aren’t the answer
    • Legalism–seeking to impose enough rules to create holiness
      • The Law only has the power to reveal God’s will–but it cannot empower obedience
      • God’s Law was given in the context of relationship, and our parenting needs to be in the context of relationship as well
    • License–seeks to counter the excesses of legalism by erroring in the opposite direction
      • Failure to teach self-control has life-long–and often, eternity-long–consequences
      • Even in an unbelieving, secular life delayed gratification is one of the most fundamental lessons everyone must learn
      • Self-control is one of the fruits of the Spirit

 

Live It Out

  1. Honestly examine your parenting
  2. Repent of worthless parenting practices
  3. Accept God’s forgiveness and embrace grace–for yourself and for your child
  4. Change your thinking through God’s means of grace

 

Book recommendations:

  • Shepherding a Child’s Heart by Tedd Tripp
  • Parenting by Paul David Tripp
  • Grace-Based Parenting by Tim Kimmel
  • Family Discipleship by Matt Chandler & Adam Griffin
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Worship Service 07/04/2021

Preacher: Jeremy Herbert

Text: 1 Timothy 2:1-7

Theme: Praying for the Lost

Notes: 

Effective evangelism begins with praying for the lost.

How to Pray

  • “supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings” (v.1)
    1. Pray with awareness of the need –supplications
    2. Pray as worship to God –prayers
    3. Pray with compassion for people –intercessions
      • God-honoring prayer is not detached and aloof
      • Matthew 9:35, Christ moved with compassion for the lost
    4. Pray with a grateful heart –thanksgivings
      • When you are truly grateful for a good gift, it is hard not to tell about the one who gave it
    5. Pray with holy hands (v.8)
      • Sin undermines your confidence in God–and your prayers suffer as a result
    6. Pray while proclaiming the gospel
      • We are not to either pray or go–we are to pray and go
  • Who should we pray for?
    • All men (in general)
    • Those in authority (in specific)
      • Paul exhorted this–knowing full well that Nero was the emperor at the time
      • Pray that our leaders would come to Christ, pray for their well-being
        • Romans 2, “The goodness of God leads us to repentance.”
        • It’s hard to draw people to Christ if you don’t love them
      • Result: that we may live quiet and peaceable lives (v.2)
  • Why Pray?
    • God says it is good (v.3)
    • God wants to rescue people (v.4)
    • It pleases God joy (v.3)
    • Salvation uniquely glorifies the godhead (v.5-6)
      • Christ became a ransom not for masses, but for particular persons
    • It reflects the heart of our Savior (John 7)
  • Scriptural Examples
    • Samuel
    • Jeremiah
    • Daniel
    • Stephen
    • Paul (Romans 9)
  • Historical Examples
    • Knox
    • Whitefield
    • Martin
    • Spurgeon

 

Live It Out

  • Pray for our community to come to Christ
  • Pray for local, state, national leaders to come to Christ
  • Pray that our church would be a lighthouse of hope
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Worship Service 06/27/2021

Preacher: Jeremy Herbert

Text: 1 Thessalonians 2:1-12

Theme:  4 Principles To Be A Disciple-Making Dad

Thesis:

Notes:

  1. Our mission is gospel-centered
  2. Our methods are God-dependent
  3. Our motives are God-glorifying
  4. Our manner is grace-based

 

It is your responsibility as a parent to teach and model the gospel to your children–
but their salvation is God’s responsibility.

If our kids turn out well, it is a testament to God’s grace and goodness–not a testament to our parenting.

4. Our manner is grace-based

  • Paul described his manner with the Thessalonians to a nursing mother (12:7)
  • Paul’s intent was to shepherd them toward spiritual health
    • cf Ephesians 6:4, “…do not provoke your children to anger….”
  • “…we were ready to share with you not only the gospel of God but also our own selves….” (12:8)
    • Your children do not need more stuff–they need you
    • It is easy to buy into the lie that “this project/event/chore/task/sermon will not be done if I don’t do it”
  • “…we worked night and day….” (12:9)
  • “[we walked worthy, and exhorted you to do the same]” (12:10-12)

 

Live It Out

  1. Be honest and open about your failures
  2. Embrace grace
  3. Prayerfully plan changes
  4. Get help